Fatherhood and Ballet

Going to your children’s events to see them is not enough. Dads have to learn to enjoy what their kids enjoy.

By Mark D. Harris

Last week I was at a ballet studio watching my daughter dance. It was a fun show, similar to ones that I have seen countless times before. Since my oldest daughter was three, I have attended ballet recitals, shows, and the annual Nutcracker. Over the years, ballet has become an important part of our lives.

It was not always this way. My mother was not a dancer and she had two boys. Our nearest cousins were boys and so were all of our friends. Boys dance, but finding a boy in a typical ballet school can be as hard as finding a Republican in New York City. We played football, joined Boy Scouts, and attended church, but never danced, or knew anyone who did. This all changed when our oldest girl was born.

In the early years, I went to ballet performances to see my daughter, the cutest person in the world to me. From Coppelia to A Midsummer Night’s Dream, I didn’t want to miss seeing her dance or giving her flowers after a performance.

Loving What They Love

When my little ones started ballet, they began asking me questions after their performances. “Daddy”, one would ask, “What did you think about the Russian dancer?” or “How did you like the Sugar Plum Fairy?” The first time my oldest asked a question like this, the blood drained from my face and I stammered a helpless “They were great, sweetheart, what did you think?” In truth, I didn’t remember the Russian and I couldn’t tell the Sugar Plum Fairy from the Snow Queen. I wasn’t attending dance performances to enjoy dance; I was going there to see my daughters. I thought that this was enough.

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Physical Beauty and the Christian

Physical beauty, whether in a lilac or in a lady, is a gift from God. We must enjoy it, develop it, protect it, value it, and ultimately give Him the glory. Physical beauty is a valid, though it cannot be all-consuming, goal for a Christian.

By Mark D. Harris

My recent travels led me to the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a conversation with Felicity, a Boyce College undergraduate studying the Bible before she moves on to a degree in cosmetology. A beautiful and engaging young woman, Felicity believes that her call to ministry is to help others be beautiful and engaging. Helping other coeds with hair, makeup, and the like is a joy to her, and a source of some badly needed cash.

Yet there is a proverbial fly in the ointment. Felicity has a wonderful Christian role model who works in the industry, and she has reported to Felicity that cosmetology is hard for people dedicated to Christ. Many people involved, both workers and clients, act as if physical appearance is all that matters. Youth and vanity, already lauded in much of American culture, become idolized in the walls of the salon. Should a committed Christ-follower even be in such an environment? If so, how can she keep her heart pure? Felicity asked me what I thought on this issue, and I have written some thoughts below.

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Music, Lyrics, and Chords

Songs and chords to sing, play, and enjoy. 

Many people love to sing. Though individual and group singing seem to have declined in Western culture since professionally produced music is constantly available, making music, not just listening to it, is one of the healthiest and most fun things that people can do. Singing improves breath control and respiratory health, it improves our mental status, and it brings people together (even if you can’t sing very well).

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Music – Lessons, Chords, and Theory

Centuries ago, the only way that most people heard music was if they and their neighbors made it themselves. Now, anyone can hear any music anytime and anywhere. Has that made us moderns less likely to sing and play ourselves? If it has, let’s stop the trend. We need to make music. 

By Mark D. Harris

Learning music theory for any instrument can be difficult, but it doesn’t have to be here are some lesson ideas, experiences, and images to help young students decipher the mysteries of music.

Basic Guitar Lessons

Since I lead music for children with voice and guitar at our church, I am sometimes asked to teach children how to play the guitar. The topics that we cover during each of the first six lessons, each intended to last 30 minutes, are below. Beyond what is listed, we use a variation of the Progressive Beginner Guitar book.

Lesson 1

  1. Parts of the guitar
  2. Types and styles of guitar
  3. How to hold the guitar
  4. How to strum (up and down)
  5. Strings – E-A-D-G-B-E
  6. Right hand techniques (playing one string, two strings together, three strings together and in sequence)
  7. How to tune the guitar
  8. Practice playing one, two, and three strings together and in sequence

Lesson 2

  1. Review
  2. What is a chord? (Major, minor, seventh)
  3. The G major chord
  4. The D major chord
  5. Open strings and fretted notes
  6. The quarter note
  7. Practice making and playing G and D chords and transitioning between the two.
  8. Play a song with the G and D chords.

Lesson 3

  1. Review
  2. The half note
  3. The C major chord
  4. The quarter and half rests
  5. Practice making and playing G, D, and C chords and transitioning between them.
  6. Play a song with the G, D, and C chords. For example, Silent Night
  7. Homework – Practice everything noted above.

Lesson 4

  1. Review
  2. E major and A major chords
  3. The whole note and whole rest
  4. The eighth note
  5. Practice making and playing G, D, C, E, and A chords and transitioning between them.
  6. Play a song with these chords.
  7. Homework – Practice everything noted above.

Lesson 5

  1. Review
  2. B major and F major chords
  3. Eighth note rhythm pattern
  4. Practice making and playing G, D, C, E, A, B, and F chords and transitioning between them.
  5. Play a song with these chords.
  6. Homework – Practice everything noted above.

Lesson 6

  1. Review
  2. The fourth string
  3. D, E and F notes
  4. Minor chords (Dm, Em, Am)
  5. Practice making and playing all known chords and transitioning between them.
  6. Play a song with these chords.
  7. Homework – Practice everything noted above.

Aids to Teaching and Learning Music

Piano Chords
Guitar Chords
Staff Chords
Musical Counting

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The Year in Music, Art, Literature and Drama History

16 Jan – The first edition of El ingenioso hidalgo Don Quijote de la Mancha (Book One of Don Quixote) by Miguel de Cervantes was published in Madrid, Spain (1605).

17 Jan – Popeye the Sailor, a comic character created by Elzie Segar, first appeared in the Thimble Theater comic strip (1929).

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